Like a recipe for a great dish, it’s about having a combination of ingredients working in your favour: a couple of well-lit, authentic pictures of yourself, combined with a pinch of wit, a decent helping of honesty, and generous servings of thoughtfulness, individuality, and attention to detail.
In this article, we’re going to introduce you to a few different dating profiles that each contain varying quantities of the above elements.
There isn’t one big secret to success at online dating.
It’s not your profile photo (though a good one helps). An awesome dating profile always stands out from the crowd It’s not how many messages you send out or how much time you spend browsing other people’s profiles.
Jessica has a great job and may love what she does, but unfortunately, this description will not spark any attraction or interest. So let’s transform the example above into the kind of writing that others will take notice of. Wink…” In the revised profile example, Jessica now appears unique, stands out from the competition, demonstrates various aspects of her personality, reveals qualities men are attracted to (helping others, being silly, etc.), displays nothing but positive energy, shows a passion for her daily life, demonstrate humor with a playful joke, and innocently flirts with the reader.
“Most days of the week you could find me living out my dream as a 10th grade drama teacher. All of this (and more) is accomplished in just a few very short sentences.
The world of online dating is filled with the good, the bad and the downright ugly when it comes to suitors. With a bit of hard work and training, anyone can create a profile that will stand out from the competition and attract the right people. Often, men will see a profile they are attracted to, struggle with what to say, get frustrated and consequently, skip to the next profile. Writing in your profile that "I love camping in the summer," doesn't make it easy for the reader to strike up a conversation.
That being said, it’s still very true that if you’re gorgeous, what you write in your profile suddenly becomes less important.
Since most men reading these words are gorgeous (I’m certainly not), this is irrelevant. Powerful Template 1: The Outcome Independent Profile This is the standard Blackdragon profile, the one I discuss in detail in my primary online dating ebook and one I’ve used many times.
Maybe this message will be different than all the others. Perhaps this email will finally be the one that doesn't have you contemplating the potential rise in serial killers populating your neighborhood. If this sounds familiar, don't get too down on your luck.
You have the most beautiful brown eyes I ever seen. " You log off, wondering if online dating was ever a good idea to begin with.