Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner. "Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.Whether it's someone you're meeting online or it's someone your friends know, aim to drop the things you know about them and start fresh.
The more you know before you meet, the more prepared you’ll feel. Remind yourself that you’re simply getting to know someone new. You are meeting a stranger after all: someone should know where you are. Expecting a blind date to lead to love isn’t fair for either of you, nor is showing up with a pessimistic attitude. Instead of worrying about who you’ll be meeting tonight, ask yourself what you’re looking for in a relationship.Promise yourself a small indulgence after the date, whether it’s a bubble bath, drinks with a close friend, or watching your favourite movie in bed.Pick out an outfit ahead of time and don’t let yourself double- or triple-guess your selection. Keep the date short — coffee dates are less stressful than three-course dinners — and leave in separate vehicles.Opt for something comfortable, accurate to your personal style, and appropriate for the occasion. Even if you’re sure the person you’re meeting isn’t the one for you, try to give the matchmaker the benefit of the doubt and stick it out for 45 minutes or so. Even if your first impression was an accurate one, at least you won’t look like a jerk for running away.